Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done Kindle Edition

Wow, how he sees women comes through in full color. And it is a turn off.On the example of his wife saving time by ordering groceries in advance--He says 75% of the time his wife buys the same groceries, which suggests she buys different things the other 25%. Why doesn't HE order the groceries and save her even MORE time?Another woman is a "busy mom." The men, as far as I see, are not labeled "busy dads." Are they all not dads? If some are dads, are none busy?The example of his wife working as his assistant until she told him to hire someone else. [Eyeroll]He gives two examples of men in powerful roles saving time but then the female example is of a mom who wants to lose weight. Moms again!For saying this, I may be called names.Is he not aware of what he is doing? Does no one in his world let him in on this...are his people unaware? Scared to speak truth to him? Maybe they are too busy being moms losing weight??A LOT about who you REALLY are comes out in your writing.We see you.Examine your examples.

Most people don’t keep their New Year’s resolutions. According to a commonly cited statistic, 92 percent of resolution-makers become resolution-breakers. The odds may not be ever in your favor, it seems.Of course, most people don’t accomplish their goals, period. It doesn’t matter to your body whether you resolve to eat right and exercise on January 1 or July 17, for example. The only thing that matters is whether you eat right and exercise. You can start doing those things — or not doing them — any time of the year. The same goes with any other goal.So why do our resolutions fail? Why don’t we finish what we start? There may be any number of reasons, but Jon Acuff thinks that perfectionism is “the ultimate villain.”He writes:"The problem is that perfectionism magnifies your mistakes and minimizes your progress. It does not believe in incremental success. Perfectionism portrays your goal as a house of cards. If one thing doesn’t go perfectly, the whole thing falls apart. The smallest misstep means the entire goal is ruined."Perfectionism also messes us up by making us aim too high. There are perhaps a thousand reasons 92 percent of resolutions fail, but one of the greatest is also one of the most deceptive."When we create a goal, we aim for something better. We want to look better. We want to feel better. We want to be better. But then better turns into best. We don’t want small growth. We want massive, overnight success."The key to keeping your New Year’s resolutions and accomplishing your goals starts with kicking perfectionism to the curb. This is easier said than done, however, so Acuff recommends taking six action steps:1. Cut your goal in half.2. Choose what to bomb.3. Make it fun if you want it done.4. Leave your hiding places and ignore noble obstacles.5. Get rid of your secret rules.6. Use data to celebrate your imperfect progress.Again, this looks easy, but while Acuff keeps the tone of the book light — he’s a very witty author — there are sound motivational principles behind his advice. And he fleshes out how to take each action step with concrete examples, diagnostic questions and helpful suggestions.Reading a book isn’t a magic wand. Accomplishing your goals requires work, often hard work. But the work doesn’t have to be impossible or joyless. In fact, it should be doable and tap into your deepest hopes.As the New Year begins, don’t let the best get in the way of the better. Don’t let perfectionism hinder progress, however small. Be realistic, be patient…and get ’er done!

Finish acts as a no B.S. guide to getting things done as it helped me quickly identify the barriers, self-imposed and external, that stand in the way of completing what I’ve started. I highly recommend this book to professionals looking to be more effective when it comes to their productivity and better managing their ability to execute. Finish is particularly applicable to creative creators who are writing, podcasting, shooting video or developing any other format of content as there’s a lot of particular tips for helping simplify your goals to ensure you’re able to reach the finish line and get things published.Here are my three big takeaways from the book and why I recommend giving this a read:1) The pursuit of perfectionism keeps you from reaching your goals. Acuff suggests coming to the realization that your goals won’t be perfect and that you’ve got to develop a tolerance for imperfection. There will be failures along the way as you navigate your tasks, but that doesn’t mean you should stop because of a misstep or two or maybe even three.2) Reduce your goals to ensure you reach the finish line. He suggests cutting your initial goals in half to make them more attainable as we typically fall prey to planning fallacy, the tendency to make plans unrealistically close to best-case scenarios. A researcher at the University of Memphis studied the members enrolled in one of Acuff’s courses and found that “90 percent of the people that cut their goal in half said they had an increased desire to work on their goal; it encouraged them to keep going, and it motivated them to work harder because the goal seemed attainable.” He found that people were more eager to continue forward and finish their projects when their goals became manageable and the pace was adjusted accordingly.3) Identify the made-up rules that hold you back and break them. “Perfectionism is a desperate attempt to live up to impossible standards,” according to Acuff. These impossible standards are secret rules or limiting beliefs we all abide by that direct our work and make it more difficult to complete the tasks we’ve committed to. A common secret rule is that only miserable, difficult goals count says Acuff like running to lose weight because that sounds more taxing than Zumba, which you’d rather be doing in the first place. He recommends replacing any cumbersome rules with new ones that are flexible, reasonable, healthy and truthful.If you’re looking to better understand your behavior when it comes to time management, goal setting and productivity, than I highly recommend reading Finish. It’s light, funny and easy to read with strong takeaways you can immediately act on.

This was possibly one of THE most useful books I’ve read in a long time. Fresh from reading Stop Getting In Your Own Way, which was also very good, this was a more digestible read and the interjection of humour helped me to internalise the info a bit better. Would recommend.

I bought it as a gift for my mother. My comments are mostly about the quality.It's printed on a cheap yellowish paper. I have a cheaper books using better paper.I paid more to have a hardcover version. It's hardcover but the visual cover is just a printed paper.With regard to the content. I liekd it but probably it can be reduced to 100 pages.

Bought the Kindle version. Highlighted a lot! I love Jon's talent for knowing how I work/think, it's like he can read my mind. I feel an inner shift! Also love his sense of humour. Best self help book I've read!

I really enjoyed this book. Jon Acuff is funny yet practical in his writing. This book has made me pick up things that have been on the shelf for too long. I highly recommend it.

This is a good book. The author does get a little carried away with the idea that perfectionism is the ever present enemy, but that shouldn’t take away with the book’s value. It’s changed my thinking.