Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away: 12 Relationship Killers That Ruin Your Long-Term Potential with High-Quality Men (Smart Dating Books for Women) Kindle Edition

I very much appreciated the author's direct to the point approach. His advice might seem like common sense; but, if common sense were common, there would not be so much frustration and heartache in so many lives. The Kindle version is not costly and I found that what he said gave clarity and confidence. It's well worth buying.

I am so grateful I read this book. I was feeling kinda anxious in my relationship due to my anxious attachment style. This book made me realize that I have more work to do. I am happy this book helped me figure out how to go about it. Not only do I feel more happier, my partner is going out of his way to treat me even more preciously than before (without me even having to ask). I feel more confident and relaxed 2 days into reading, and I think he picked up on it. Amazing book. Please do yourself a favor and read it!

If you want a full length book, this may not meet your expectations. The information is well stated and doesn't mince words. He didn't try to spin the foundation information into longer content. It's almost like a long article. That said, his points are valid and predominantly common sense, once you hear them.I don't think you'd just guess the whole list in a brainstorm before you read it, though I'd find it an amusing exercise to hear the results, if someone did test their own insight and compare results.I read a review before I purchased that got all fired up and offended about it being sexist and following archaic patriarchal standards. Having read it, I disagree. You will find what you are looking for. He addresses some things acknowledging our biological tendencies, and states the man's perspective, reactions, and desires on some things women do that women would see pretty much the same way and likely desire the same things, were expectations and circumstances reversed. We've got to admit women are just as oblivious as men are, sometimes, with the impact that comes with the things we do--how our actions affect others.Anyway, I felt that for the price, the fact that it was a short book was no big deal, but I wouldn't balk at a deeper exploration of the subject. It's kind of like a "Hello!" wake-up call to double check for being oblivious to how we affect others. I thought it was worth it, and I'll skim it on occasion to pick up action points I need or have neglected. After all, any book is worthless of we don't apply it.

I cannot stop reading this book. After this I decided to purchase all Bruce Bryans books.

I like the book was short and got straight to the point but most of it was common sense. Nobody wants someone who doesn’t show interest or supports them nor do they want to feel like dating someone with bad character. On one hand the point about men judging you based on your friends was a ah ha moment for me because I heard comments like this but disregarded them thinking the guy was overthinking. Now I understand from a different perspective and will be keeping this in mind moving forward

buy all of his books. There are some things I have prior knowledge; however, the in-depth statements are great I had to write them down.

I've read other books by Bruce Bryans and really like them. Instead of giving frivolous advice about how to attract any and all men he has you focus in attracting the right man and how to make yourself more attractive by being a better person rather than silly tricks that don't impress anyone. Worth your time.

Reading this made me realize things I have done which have caused a man to pull away. I read this book after reading his other book on 40 ways to tell if a guy is just passing time with you. Not only did I realize that the guy I've been dealing with has been exhibiting some of those behaviors but after reading this book on relationship deal breakers, now I understand why.

Sound advice as to what is a turn off in the dating game. I'd say this goes for people in general. But female specific here. The author speaks (writes) like he's your big brother looking out for you. It's very endearing. Great advice. Useful.

Very useful!This book gave me all that I needed to know and shown me the mistakes I did. Each time I will need to know about relationship between men and women I will refer to it.

Not only does this book provide an easy to read checklist so you can measure where you are and where you may be lacking, but it also gives invaluable insight into a good man's mind. This world needs more books like this too steer women straight and embrace their femininity once again. Well done - thank you!

I really liked how this little booklet is organized in 12 chapters so I can always just jump to the chapter I am interested in.Everything can be summarized as follows:1. Don’t keep company with licentious or obnoxious women2. Treat lower social status people with kindness3. Don’t show an unreliable and fickle nature4. Be careful if you are high- maintenance ( you require an unreasonable amount of time, attention and resources in order to be happy)5. Showing inconsideration for his masculine drive, meaning don’t be extremely independent6. Showing indifference to his dreams7. Not showing him enough appreciation for what he does for you8. Trying to change him9. Being jealous when he talks to another woman10. Being unreasonable jealous when he spends time with his friends11. Being a drama Queen12. Being self absorbedI personally am guilty of some of the above so as I said it is a great reminder of things not to do if you want to be with a high quality man. On the other hand I think we women in general have to be cautious not to forget who we really are and what our needs are and just become a man pleaser.Either than that it is a great little booklet!