Look Into My Eyes: How To Use Hypnosis To Bring Out The Best In Your Sex Life Paperback – Illustrated, November 3, 2008

Not quite what I expected. It has some interesting and useful information on how to use hypnosis for erotic purposes but a lot of it I found unuseful for me.

I bought this book as a surprise for my girlfriend, who has a hypnosis fetish. We hadn't really explored that in our relationship because I was utterly terrified of hypnotising her, for fear I'd do some sort of accidental psychological damage. While I'm still extremely nervous (because, well, if people were dogs I'd be one of those twitchy little Chihuahuas who piddles on the floor when the doorbell rings), I have to say, this book has gone a long way in making me feel more confident and capable about integrating that aspect into our BDSM play. In fact, it's about as reassuring as you can get - WAY less sketchy than most of the stuff I was reading online, which tends to quickly crumble into how to ~secretly~ hypnotize your partner into "doing whatever you want," which just sounds beyond gross and abusive.My only disappointment with this book is that I wanted more from Peter Masters, who is a noted author on the psychological aspects of kinky sex and BDSM, on the connection between hypnosis and those behaviors. My limited readings and discussions seem to show a VERY strong link between the hypnosis "trance" state and the "sub-space" state described by many BDSM submissives, and I wish this relationship was better explored by the community just to give us a better understanding of what each of those things entails. Instead, hypnosis seems to generally be seen as a fringe element of the BDSM community, which makes it a difficult thing to research, and I wanted Masters to draw those two sides together more closely in a "dammit these are actually pretty similar" way.Also, it's a wee bit heteronormative, but honestly, that doesn't really faze me at this point.

This was a very interesting read. This teaches you how to hypnotize effectively, how to measure how deeply someone is hypnotized (and how to get them deeper into trance, thusly more real sensations), tips on how to word things for the very literal minded hypnotized, and gives you ideas of what to do with hypnosis as well as some scripts for couples and if you just want to give your significant other a solo treat. It includes a variety of common scenario fetishes including mile high club, slave/master, sex on the beach, and so on. It is written very well and flows wonderfully, it was marvelously difficult to put down. It is well worth the price!My husband and I have already been enjoying hypnosis in our relations but this book had taught us many useful things.Hypnosis is a great way to loosen inhibitions. Though if you REALLY don't want to you still will not preform something you wouldn't want to do, so don't worry about being taken advantage of, and you still will remember your wonderful adventures. Even a perfectly happy sex life can use a little spice now and then, and this is a useful addition to your tool box. If you have any fetishes or scenarios you've always wanted to try but never had the chance, or were a little afraid/shy to, this is the answer. This even can help remove performance anxiety and make you more or less sensitive to a certain extent. All these things and more are outlined in the book. Go ahead, have some fun!

I haven't spent as much time with this technique as I'd like yet, but it's already proving effective for me and my guy. I was very skeptical at first because, while I believe in the potential for hypnosis, I feel like it's not something that I could learn to do without a lot of training. But this book has actually already begun helping in the short time we've been trying it. I imagine that partly due to my boyfriend's natural susceptibility to hypnosis, but either way, this book helped a lot. I was expecting to have to write that Masters' other books were more helpful, but this has been astonishingly useful for us in just a couple weeks since reading it.

This product fits all the needs we purchased it for and a great price

Loved this book. Couldn't put it down. He id's into hypnosis. Can't wait to try this technique!

Need 2 to tango, but I will try.

im extremly critic so i three star is not bad. NOT A BAD READ

I absolutely love this book. It has useful and interesting information. It is written in a very entertaining but still educational way. I recommend it to ANYONE who is interested in spicing up their lovelife or just anyone interested in hypnosis as the first chapters are non-sexual and a good step by step guide to hypnosis.Only "con" is that the scripts are a bit boring when it comes to the sexual part. I bet they work well for pure beginners when they just want to try it out and need all the help they can get. But for someone like me who already have alot of exprience in this field it quickly gets tedious and boring to read them outloud as they feel over-descriptive (not in a good way) and slow.It's not really a problem for me as I make up my own scripts but I felt I should point it out.Highly recommended for anyone with an interest in hypnosis!

nichts wirklich Überraschendes, aber eine solide Einführung in das Hypnose - Spezialgebiet 'Erotik'. Im Gegensatz zu anderen Werken deutlich weniger 'kinky', also mehr für Normalanwender außerhalb des Bdsm-Bereichs zu verwenden.

Sehr schön geschrieben, mein Partner und ich hatten schon beim Lesen viel Freude.Mit den beschrieben Anleitungen ist es einfach, die Hypnose selbst zu probieren und mit dem Partner zu erleben. Hat bei und bereits nach einigen Versuchen gut funktioniert.

If you are looking for a book to get you started in the art of hypnosis, this is the book for you. It is clear, concise and is written on the assumption that the reader has no previous knowledge.

Das Buch ist nett, aber das Potenzial von Hypnose wird nicht wirklich ausgeschöpft.Es könnten mehr Vorschläge für Szenarien und so erwähnt werden. Es hat zu weniginspirierende Inhalte, die man von so einem Buch erhoffen würde. Aber es liest sichsehr gut.