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T**W
A Book of Secrets for Married Bliss
You have the power to improve your marriage in as little as two days or as long as two weeks. The advice in this book worked for me in two days and I was amazed at how magical the process was. This is a book of secrets for married bliss. Laura Doyle is an author who has been given credit for saving a lot of marriages. Her goal is to empower women so they can vanquish the awful threat of divorce which can lead to emotional anguish, poverty and loneliness.In Laura Doyle's own marriage she had reached a stage in her marriage where she was lonely, there was no laughter and long intimate discussions. What to do? This was the stage at which the six intimacy skills were born. Laura Doyle decided to ask other married women what their secret was. When she tried the ideas she had more fun and stopped wasting her time on emotional turmoil.Some of the ideas in this book are very easy to implement immediately. You will be amazed at what you hear your husband say and I found that my husband was asking for me to do the things this book told me to do. I tried one idea immediately and it worked beyond all belief! So I kept reading. The truth is what Laura Doyle teaches is things that make you seem like the ideal wife and make you highly likeable. By giving your husband compliments and telling him what makes you happy you open up an entire new world of possibilities. Men really do want to make you happy!So by the time I'd read the second chapter I'd already tried out one main idea and it worked. I learned a new valuable skill that I can use daily. And who wouldn't like a book with a chapter title like this: "How to Get More Gifts, Compliments and Help".Some of the things this book teaches include:What can you do to make your husband become more thoughtful?How can you be more feminine and attractive to your husband?What makes men want to earn more income and be more ambitious?How can you show respect to a man in a way he understands?What can you do to stop the verbal abuse in your marriage?So instead of complaining to your friends and family that your husband is not changing and you are looking at divorce options, read this book and become the agent of change that will save your marriage. I've read over 120 books on marriage and relationships and this book taught me the most interesting and powerful things I could do in a matter of days.One thing I learned during reading this book was to trust my husband more. But it was difficult when we were driving and I noticed the gas was on empty. I held in my comment about getting gas until I nearly exploded. lol Finally I pointed at the next gas station and loudly declared: "Gas Station!" Of course my husband instantly said: "Don't you trust me?" So it is somewhat challenging to keep quiet when you are full of ideas for improvement and help. So instantly I said: "I'd be happier if the gas tank was full." This got a positive comment back instead of an argument.So if you are in the mode of criticizing, nagging, complaining and trying to control your husband, this book has a lot to teach you about trust, intimacy and loving interactions. Your communication will improve as you will now know what to say and how to say it. This book gives a basic script for dealing with men in general.To implement the ideas in this book will require some effort and thought, especially if you are already frustrated and have been pushed to your breaking point. But you actually have had the power to have the relationship you want all this time! Read this book, start saying the right things and I can promise you, you will see a change in a matter of days. Suddenly your husband will become the person you married in the first place! I loved this book so much that I'm going to read it a second time and try more ideas. We women really do have all the power and just have to learn how to use that power for good!~The Rebecca ReviewP.S. It has been a few weeks since I started to use this information seriously and it has reduced arguments to a bare minimum. Some days there is not even a disagreement. Like magic I tell you! I'm going to read this for a third time!
M**D
Game changer
I can see immediate results with my boyfriend, my son and my coworkers. Well worth the read!
A**R
This book accidentally improved my marriage.
I've always thought of myself as one of the lucky ones. I actually like my husband. We enjoy being around each other. So, you might be surprised that I bought this book. I sure was.It practically fell into my lap.Before suggesting it to my friend in need, I thought I'd give a listen to The Empowered Wife podcast to see if it was something I could happily recommend. The interviews blew my mind! I bought the book to learn more.The six skills are straight-forward, logical and work miracles. They remind me a lot of Al-Anon principles in that the reader is guided to focus on her side of the street. I bought the book. Easy to read. The author has a very likeable writing voice.Some of the explanations on how husbands perceive wives' actions were eye-opening. Just for fun and because I love to learn, I decided to experiment with the six skills in my marriage.It's been four days since getting the book and I am astounded by the changes in our marriage. IN FOUR DAYS! Imagine what gems await us as I finish reading the book and implementing its ideas.My husband is paying more attention to me. He's apologizing with ease. He's thanking me for the things I do. I am more compassionate, more relaxed and having way more fun. It's absolutely amazing that this book can even help a marriage with a strong foundation.FYI, I'm a modern woman. I have been married for 21 years. I think this book is great for all types of people. Hippy chicks. Strong women. Trad wives. There's a place for all of us here.
O**S
Great Book
Love this book!! Helped me very much in my marriage and the experiences shared are truly relatable. Being a Christian not okay with a few things but overall great book!! I’ve recommended to many of my friends and highly recommend to all you ladies!!
W**A
Some good information amidst the fluff
I gave this book a 4 stars because there are some good nuggets of information but the way they were presented left a bad taste in my mouth overall. Every chapter starts off devaluing marriage counseling and then stating how her 6 intimacy skills are better. Ironically enough, I actually had already learned almost everything mentioned in this book from attending marriage counseling.Minus her technique of never asking for things, just hinting or making known your desires for your husband to jump in to fulfill them. I think this should be presented later on after you have reestablish a good intimate connection. If you do not have that connection your man will not want to please you.This books doesn't mention DV type situations until much later on. Again that chapter along with the verbal abuse chapter left a bad taste in my mouth. If you are in a DV situation or there is verbal abuse the seductive submission promoted in this book is very dangerous. When an individual who wants more power and control is given it, the abuse escalates instead of making the relationship better. Speaking from experience. If you are married to someone who sees everything you do as wrong, an insult, disrespectful, not enough, even when you are giving it your A game, there is nothing more you can do then leave the relationship and hopefully find a partner who values you. But as the book states you need to see yourself as valuable and be taking care of yourself to be able to give what you are also wanting in a partner.If you do not have the funds to seek out marriage counseling or individual therapy then I would recommend this book. It can be a little hard to listen through the trad life examples and the constant sales pitch of her 6 intimacy skills and how woulderful they are but just get a notebook and jot down the good nuggets you take from it all! It's worth it.
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