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# It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People

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Review: Another wonderful book by Dr. Ramani - Dr. Ramani understands the psychological landscape of these relationships so well and extends so much compassion to survivors of these relationships. I have been able to find myself in the chaos that I was and am surrounded with all thanks to Dr. Ramani. Her work truly empowers people. Her work needs to reach more people, and she deserves more recognition for the work that she is doing as she is making a huge difference in people's lives. Her work needs to reach those who are going through these relationships but have no one to tell them that they are not the problem. She sees these relationships for what they truly are and never makes survivors feel unsafe and feel like they are to blame for these relationships. Her work resonated with me on so many levels as often I have engaged in self-doubt and self-blame because of all the enabling and noise around me when I knew that the ones who were being protected were toxic and abusive and not the other way around. Thank you Dr. Ramani for the work that you are doing! You have helped so many people and continue to do so. God bless you and wish you all the happiness in the world!
Review: Radical Acceptance ! - This book really changes one’s perspective on dealing with narcissistic people. Prior to reading this book I used to be very offensive, aggressive, and used vehemently fight against the abuse, mistreatment, manipulative mindset of the narcissist people but after reading this book my whole thought process and behaviour transcended towards “radical acceptance” and I stopped fighting against the wall, I let go and build boundaries for my own personal peace and well being. Must read for people who are dealing with Narcissistic people of all kinds.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #10,340 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #4 in Psychopathology #6 in Self-Help for Abuse (Books) #37 in Emotional Self Help |
| Customer Reviews | 4.8 out of 5 stars 4,085 Reviews |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Another wonderful book by Dr. Ramani
*by M***L on 23 February 2024*

Dr. Ramani understands the psychological landscape of these relationships so well and extends so much compassion to survivors of these relationships. I have been able to find myself in the chaos that I was and am surrounded with all thanks to Dr. Ramani. Her work truly empowers people. Her work needs to reach more people, and she deserves more recognition for the work that she is doing as she is making a huge difference in people's lives. Her work needs to reach those who are going through these relationships but have no one to tell them that they are not the problem. She sees these relationships for what they truly are and never makes survivors feel unsafe and feel like they are to blame for these relationships. Her work resonated with me on so many levels as often I have engaged in self-doubt and self-blame because of all the enabling and noise around me when I knew that the ones who were being protected were toxic and abusive and not the other way around. Thank you Dr. Ramani for the work that you are doing! You have helped so many people and continue to do so. God bless you and wish you all the happiness in the world!

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Radical Acceptance !
*by R***K on 8 February 2025*

This book really changes one’s perspective on dealing with narcissistic people. Prior to reading this book I used to be very offensive, aggressive, and used vehemently fight against the abuse, mistreatment, manipulative mindset of the narcissist people but after reading this book my whole thought process and behaviour transcended towards “radical acceptance” and I stopped fighting against the wall, I let go and build boundaries for my own personal peace and well being. Must read for people who are dealing with Narcissistic people of all kinds.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Dr. R is what the world NEEDS in this day and age!
*by R***I on 12 April 2024*

Dr R, I want to thank you deeply from the bottom of my heart. Thank you so so much! If it wasn't for you, I would have never understood how I lost myself. I am now 30. I have been going through major depression for the past 12 years! And it was simply IMPOSSIBLE to explain to anybody about what I was going through. I have tried to explain in therapy, I have tried to journal, I have tried to talk to friends when I wanted to, but I simply never could. Because the pain had so many layers and projections. I was afraid I would carry this to my grave. And then I came across you on YT. I saw a clip from Jay Shetty's podcast and immediately something made me save it on my phone to watch it later. Then I watched, and then my life flipped! Then I watched you on Lewis's and Lisa's Podcasts. Then I explored your videos on your YT channel - FOR ONCE in 12 years I felt true relief from the gut-wrenching, chronic pain I was in! I can't tell you how grateful I am to you! I watched your videos for about 5 months continuously - made notes, and learnt a lot - then I took your AFFORDABLE healing course - then I bought this book and as I read it - I recognise my triggers and I immediately try to journal - for once I am finally able to journal after multiple attempts to journal it down over many years in the past. This is like THE HARDEST thing to explain, and you have written it so bloody well. You are simply awesome! For me, there is the sky, there is love, there is the universe, there is Buddha, there is Rumi and then there is Dr Ramani! I love you Dr. R. Thank you for the AMOUNT OF EFFORT you have put in to help people like me. I would have NEVER EVER, EVER, EVER found closure and regained a chance to reach my full potential in my life if it wasn't for you! I never expected to find ALL THE PIECES OF THE MISSING PUZZE IN ONE PLACE! It's remarkable that I did in your teachings. I really hope I can see you someday and talk to you. And really hope you are taking care of yourself well and win a Nobel prize!

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- It's Not You: How to Identify and Heal from NARCISSISTIC People (Vermilion)
- Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
- Was It Even Abuse?: Restoring clarity after covert abuse.

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