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title: "When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse"
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# When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse

**Brand:** david hawkins
**Price:** A$40
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- **What is this?** When Loving Him Is Hurting You: Hope and Help for Women Dealing With Narcissism and Emotional Abuse by david hawkins
- **How much does it cost?** A$40 with free shipping
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## Customer Reviews

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    Regret buying this! don't waste money- better books out there
  

*by J***H on Reviewed in the United States on February 13, 2019*

Sorry- I CAN'T recommend this book because it is based on the outdated incorrect view that abusers do so because they are "hurt little boys" that are insecure and treat you badly because they are acting defensively..... when in reality (and based on more modern research and understandings about abuse) their actions are all OFFENSIVE tactics based on entitlement rather than defensive mechanisms.  Why is this a big deal???  One reason is when an emotionally abused person is told their abuser is a 'hurt little boy' what they hear is that they need to be more understanding and loving... many will stay and endure the abuse to try to help... the mentality that the abuser is a hurt little boy reacting to some slight to their hurt ego reaffirms the victim's confusion about how this is all their fault and keeps them in a dangerous cycle of abuse.  I have tried to get through this book looking for any redeeming things and I just can't find enough to overshadow it's faults.  I DO recommend "In Sheep's Clothing" by George Simon and "Is it me?" by Natalie Hoffman and "Healing from Hidden Abuse" by Shannon Thomas.

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    A must have if you suspect narcissism or just have a selfish husband!
  

*by S***G on Reviewed in the United States on December 10, 2017*

This book described my husband exactly. I couldn't believe it. It's like someone followed me around the last 8 years and then wrote a book about my marriage. It's nice to have a name to what's going (emotional/psychological abuse) and to know I AM NOT CRAZY! And yes, that is the narcissist's goal, to make you think you are crazy! It's totally worth checking out if you are the least bit curious about someone in your life. If you think your husband is incredibly selfish...please read or listen to this book. He may be a narcissist! (Not necessarily the personality disorder). It's so validating and gives some practical advice on how to handle this type of person.

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    I KNEW I wasn’t crazy!!
  

*by T***H on Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2018*

I cried while I was reading this book. It validated ME as a person. A person that has been made to feel like I am always wrong. Always less than. Always the problem. Always thinking in a warped way that NOBODY else agrees with. Wow. This book is an exact reflection of my marriage.

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