F--ked at 40: Life Beyond Suburbia, Monogamy and Stretch Marks

This book was amazing, raw, real and lays it all out there. This is the first book I have ever connected to, like I did this book by Tova Leigh. I recommend this book to any woman at any age, even men could benefit from reading this book. I loved every. Single. Part. Of. This. Book. This book was captivating, I could NOT put it down!!! Tova says the things we are all thinking and let’s us know we are not alone in this cruel, judgmental world!!! Thank you Tova!!!

I LOVED this book. It was hard to put down (when I had to do so). Even though some of the beliefs she holds are not the same as the ones I do, that is what makes it so great. It is really refreshing to see other's point of view on life. Certain chapters I wish she would have gone into greater detail (Like WHAT did she say to the a$$hat that made the comment at the kid's birthday party....or how her feelings are on any encounters Mike has had...) One part says it will be for her second book (which I can not wait for). She also doesn't have to share EVERY single detail and aspect no matter how much her followers wish it. She deserves to have things for just her (and her family). I would definetly recommend this book!

I’ve never been one to read books for pleasure but THIS book I couldn’t put down. I finished it in a day and now I’m wishing I would have paced myself because I want to read more. I’ve followed Tova on social media for a while and I love her raw, unfiltered comedy and perspective on motherhood and life in general. The book was relatable, emotional and funny and I hope we get another piece of art from her soon!

Couldn’t put it down.A great read and have recommended it to all my girlfriends.Down to the dot relatable.

*ARC provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review*This is a memoir by Tova Leigh who reached internet fame via her online blog and viral videos. I personally didn't think I had ever heard of her, but when one of her videos is mentioned in the book I realized that I did remember seeing that one video and maybe a couple of other ones at some point on Facebook.Tova takes you on a journey through her life growing up in Israel all the way through her current marriage and life today. She touches on learning how to love and be loved, the ups and downs and craziness of motherhood, and the feelings that I think most of us have felt about our bodies when we are approaching or have reached 40. I could definitely identify with her during some parts of the book and not at all in others, but the area I didn't identify with her were still very interesting to read.Overall, I really enjoyed the book and how Tova told her story. She's a great storyteller and if there happens to be a follow up book as it's hinted at then I think I would definitely read it too!

I have been a fan of Tova for a while, starting with seeing her videos on Facebook, but this was only a so-so read for me. Her honesty, realness, and great humor are there, but I found the book a bit rambling. Tova seemingly kept coming back to the same thoughts/feelings/points many times - so much so that I found myself distracted and wondering if she was trying to convince herself of something while writing. Admittedly, this IS meant to be a light "summer" type of read, but it just missed the mark for me..... as do so many "public persona" autobiographies.All in all, a good first attempt at an idea that may have need some guided story boarding to really hit a home run.

In my 41 years, this might be the first book I have ever read cover to cover in just one day! A quick and engaging read written by a strong woman who had the courage to examine her life and make the changes necessary to be authentic and happy. A great inspiration and motivation for all of us women out here that need a little reminder to take the time to remember who we are and who we want to be as individuals outside of (or, in addition to) the roles we play as wives and mothers.

I loved this book so much that I bought a second copy and gifted it to my best friend who’s like a sister to me, and told her that she had to read it. No matter what stage you are at in your life there is something you can take from this book! It was so wonderful to read and feel like there was someone else on this Earth who gets what you’re going through. This book changed my entire outlook on how I was living my life. I have been talking about traveling for years and have always let my anxiety and depression get in the way of living the life I want to live. After reading this book I’ve been out of my house more and I’ve booked a trip Bali for a year and a half from now. I don’t think I ever would have done it if I hadn’t read this book. I’m inspired in so many ways, and highly recommend reading. You WILL NOT regret picking up a copy.

I enjoyed reading it so much. Could read it easily. Had a lot of laughs.Kann das Buch sehr empfehlen. Ist sehr lustig, aber auch deep. Liest sich leicht. Sieht chic aus. Auch gut zu verschenken.Habe keine Kinder aber kann trotzdem damit was anfangen! Das sagt schon alles.

This book. It's a must read for any woman nearing or in her 40's. It's well written and easy to read. Possibly because I can hear Tova reading it to me. While this book has a lot about being a mother, it is so much more than that. It's about finding yourself and living your authentic life. It's ok to want things outside your family life. Including sex.I see myself in her adolescent stalker style love and in her view of her body and food. Through reading, I found myself nodding in agreement so often and feeling so seen and heard. She talks about things we just don't talk about. We should be talking about these things!What's exceptionally wonderful about Tova herself is that if you message her, she will often message you back! She's a real and genuinely wonderful and kind woman.If another book is in the thoughts, I can't wait to read that one too!

I wasn't sure what to expect from this book. In the past I have read books from people I follow on Instagram and been very disappointed. I have realised the reason for this is I am a doer. If I don't like something I change it, if I'm unhappy I try and find a solution I'm not really one for sitting and moaning about things I can change. This is why I loved what Tova had to say as she is a doer as well. Bored in her marriage, they decided to have an open one, fed up of looking after the kids and having no life, she got a nanny, went on holiday with the girls and climbed Everest. Didn't like her job she tried something new. I like that in a person.If you've ever thought "Bloody hell is this it...is this life?" You'll take something from it.Our bugbears were similar such as labelling things mum such as mumprenuer, mum bun as if once you have kids that is the most definining thing about you. She even mentioned mum jeans which was funny as I saw a pair of jeans in a shop just the other day labelled mum jeans, I didn't know what that meant about the fit of them I just knew the label meant I would never in a million years try them on.She talked about other things i rant on about alot such as women getting sexualised all the time but heaven forbid if a woman actually embraces her sexuality she will probably be shamed. Don't get me started on telling girls that their virginity is a prize or a gift for some lucky man and therefore they should hold onto it at all costs. The fact that wanting a break from your kids doesn't mean you don't love them and that it is ok to not be perfect and still consider yourself a good mum. I say quite often that I'm a good mum and it goes against the whole self depreciation thing that seems to be popular e.g I shouted, I got pissed, I did something that didn't revolve around my child so I am shit. I'm not down with that. That we should tell people we love them more and finally just because somebody thinks something of you it doesn't mean it is true. If you know who you are it doesn't really matter what others think and everybody doesn't have to like you.A brilliant read and relatable for me. I want Tova to be my new mate.

Bought the book tonight, kindle version, cause I couldn't wait for the hard copy... I'm 74 pages in and I absolutely love it, as I thought I would, cause I have been following Tova for some time now... I know Tova reads these feedbacks so...I'm a 36 y.o. Romanian gal, settled in Italy for 14 years now, wife and mother of 2 kids and , as I am sure you have heard a lot lately, you are food for my soul in so many ways. Please keep on writing and posting your videos. The main word that keeps popping in my head is GENUINE. That is what you are. YOU RULE! Thank you for this book. A blessing! Luv

Me encanta este libro! Esta en ingles pero para mi no es un problema. Creo que es un libro que ayuda a CADA mujer, no hace falta tener los 40 años, yo tengo 28 y con cada pagina que leo me encuentro con las mismas emociones, esta escrito de una manera genial y divertida. Vamos, el libro perfecto para las mujeres y madres